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<description>Mr Knightley fell in love with Emma when she was 13 years old. He was 30 at the time. In most jurisdictions today, that is pedophilia; but we overlook that, because it was no such thing in Jane Austen&#039;s time, when the legal age for female marriage was 12. This was only pragmatic; a girl might become pregnant at that age; there had to be a path to respectability, and avoidance of the taint of illegitimacy.
What Jane almost certainly didn&#039;t know, but we do today, is that Emma would not reach her sexual peak until her early 30&#039;s, when Mr Knightley would be fiftyish, and quite possibly suffering early-stage age-related impotence. He would certainly be 30 years past his sexual prime.
Could Emma have been tempted to dally, then, with some young stud? Would Mr Knightley have consented to look the other way, knowing it was only a dalliance, and that he was secure in Emma&#039;s love?</description><link>https://dwiggie.com/phorum/read.php?4,131783,131783#msg-131783</link><lastBuildDate>Sun, 26 Jul 2026 03:01:57 +0100</lastBuildDate>
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<title>Re: Something JA (bless her) did not understand about sex...</title><link>https://dwiggie.com/phorum/read.php?4,131783,131804#msg-131804</link><description><![CDATA[Not to necessarily demean your point, but I was curious about where you got the idea that a woman's 30s is her sexual peak?]]></description>
<dc:creator>Arkadiy</dc:creator>
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<title>Re: Something JA (bless her) did not understand about sex...</title><link>https://dwiggie.com/phorum/read.php?4,131783,131799#msg-131799</link><description><![CDATA[I am sorry for all the men that you think are impotent, although I doubt that there are "many" in their forties. The environmental factors would not have applied to Mr Knightley and his contemporaries. Mr Knightley was active (he walked), not an alcoholic, and not eating over-processed food etc. He did not smoke and certainly would not be abused by Emma!]]></description>
<dc:creator>Alida</dc:creator>
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<title>Re: Something JA (bless her) did not understand about sex...</title><link>https://dwiggie.com/phorum/read.php?4,131783,131796#msg-131796</link><description><![CDATA[I'm sorry, Alida, but as a matter of medical science, you are wrong. Many men begin to suffer age-related impotence from their 40's on. The problem may be intensified by various environmental factors, many of which you can probably guess, for example: lack of exercise; unhealthy diet; smoking; excessive alcohol consumption; and (whisper it) emotional abuse perpetrated by a spouse - something else which, you may be surprised to learn, is a real thing.]]></description>
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<title>Re: Something JA (bless her) did not understand about sex...</title><link>https://dwiggie.com/phorum/read.php?4,131783,131791#msg-131791</link><description><![CDATA[Good grief! You don't know much about sex either! Men in their fifties do not grow impotent unless they are ill or on certain kinds of medication (which were not available in Austen's time anyway). Anyway, Knightley tells Emma "I was sixteen when you were born" so 29 when she was 13. When Emma turns 30, Knightley will be 46. Nowhere near decrepitude. As to your last questions, there's no way that Emma would be unfaithful to Mr Knighley. Where would she find the privacy or the 'stud' to carry on adultery when she is mistress of Donwell Abbey? Knightley would not look the other way if that happened by some remote chance; he was already in the habit of correcting her when necessary.<br /><br />I suggest you find something else about which to speculate.]]></description>
<dc:creator>Alida</dc:creator>
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<title>Something JA (bless her) did not understand about sex...</title><link>https://dwiggie.com/phorum/read.php?4,131783,131783#msg-131783</link><description><![CDATA[Mr Knightley fell in love with Emma when she was 13 years old. He was 30 at the time. In most jurisdictions today, that is pedophilia; but we overlook that, because it was no such thing in Jane Austen's time, when the legal age for female marriage was 12. This was only pragmatic; a girl might become pregnant at that age; there had to be a path to respectability, and avoidance of the taint of illegitimacy.<br /><br />What Jane almost certainly didn't know, but we do today, is that Emma would not reach her sexual peak until her early 30's, when Mr Knightley would be fiftyish, and quite possibly suffering early-stage age-related impotence. He would certainly be 30 years past his sexual prime.<br /><br />Could Emma have been tempted to dally, then, with some young stud? Would Mr Knightley have consented to look the other way, knowing it was only a dalliance, and that he was secure in Emma's love?]]></description>
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